A Heartbroken Poem May Ease Your Healing

When you last split up with your loved one, did you write them a heartbroken poem?  Or did you write one on the death of a family member or friend, or one of your pets or after some other event that has caused you much pain.      Loving relationships are an ideal subject for people who write love poetry.   Where there is a divorce or a break up, you may find that the therapy of a heartbroken poem may ease your healing. 

Lots of people use poetry to express how they are feeling at a particular time.  Unless you are thinking of publishing your works later on, the form and style your poem takes does not is unimportant.  . There is no need to write an exceptional piece of work.  Your heartbroken poem can be a private affair, in so much as you don't have to let other people see it, but I can be a good way of expressing your sadness.  .  It may not necessarily heal the wound but it may give you the therapy and courage to put your pain aside and move on to other things. 

When you go through a break up, it is important to learn how to bear the suffering. If you don't face up to things now, you risk that depression will catch up with you later on.  So, take the suffering now and when it finishes you will be in the right state of mind to move on to other pastures.  If you don't suffer now, at some time in the future you will likely to go through a period of sadness.   So it is better to face up to it straight away, before moving on.     A heartbroken poem may ease your healing and can be an excellent therapy after a break up from someone you really loved.

As you wrote it only for yourself, you don't need to worry about the quality of the poem.  You should try to express exactly how you are feeling, however difficult this may prove to be.  Write in simple language just as if you were talking to yourself;   make a list of those things that you want to say to help you in the preparation.  Try to put some order to these points before you actually compose the poem.

After you have finished your heartbroken poem you might decide to write about the different aspects that make you sad.  This will all help you face up to the pain you are suffering and help you get into a state when you will be ready to move on.  .

You can share your thoughts with others if you wish.  You may decide to put it online; there are many specialized sits that exist just for this.   You can tell other people whether or not you would like to have their comments.   You can share a part of your life with others by doing this.

Joe Bisley

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